How to Impress a girl

hey friends, i am posting after a really long time, well i really didnt get all that time so here we go..
Well there are many of you out there who wonder as to how to impress a girl well its very simple!

But before i tell you, you better know what not to do, and thats precisely what i am going to tell you right now.

A lot of guys out there think that wearing designer clothes, big huge biceps, that you try to flex in hany girl you want! please get that out of your head, that is not at all true. It is also not at all cool to be too big a showoff or act cool, by being rude to others. they are huge turnoffs!

Now here's what you should do:

1.First and foremost RESPECT WOMEN! if you dont respect them dont expect yourself to deserve a woman. not only do women look forward to being respected, the really like men who respect them and their thought and feelings.

2. Never force a girl for anything, the more you push her the more you'll make her uncomfortable and the more she will try and get away from you!er face all the time, and six pack abs is going to get you
3. Get noticed, no not by creating havoc, shouting or being too aggressive, women hate loud talkers, aggressive men, as you know females are asociated with calmness, kindness and generosity, and thats what they look in their male counterparts too. You may not be the most good looking man in the world, but you'll definitely score much more points with manners, than a good looking man would with his looks! so to get noticed, introduce yourself well, be well dressed for the occasion, have fresh breadth and be very jovial at the gathering, or the date, start slow, there is no hurry, specialy if you want the woman to be yours!
4. the approach- when you approach a woman be confident! if your not confident she will sense it and will lose interest in you! women like men who take the trouble or make an effort to interact with them. they love it when there is someone out there to get them, it makes them feel special- something all women want to feel!
5. be confident, but not too confident, dont seem to be too desperate, if you see the woman is not interested- move on! dont pester her or nag her, or annoy her, that way you will only lose your respect both in yours and her eyes!
6. Stay fit! yes exercise my friends! women prefer fit men to fat, unfit ones, fit doesnt mean 8 packs, it means having a good physique, staying healthy within your ideal weight.
7. dress well, dont dress shabbily and dont over dressed, women dont want to be looked hanging around with a wardrobe malfunction guy! so please dress appropriately, it goes a very long way, wear some good cologne, but if you can- make a woman buy you a cologne, cause it will ultimately be a females choice, hence females will like the perfume! carry a neat napkin
well thats all for now.. will post more later.. continue reading :-)

The run for College Admissions

Its hat time of the year my friends, the run for College Admissions have begun, its time to go and start begging and pleading to colleges to take you in, but to no avail, so all those out there running around for college admissions don't feel lonely, its the same everywhere. This article does not apply to those people out there who have no social life what soever and probably lost their virginity to a book. its for blokes like me who actually have an interest in life, games sports and a social life! Where do people like us go? just because we don't get the best marks out there, like 99% n stuff doesn't really mean that we are not intelligent. Does scoring high marks in school exams only define our mental capacity?
Some great sports-persons use the most scientific of knowledge to play their sport, knowledge that they gain over practice, spending long hours perfecting their shots, strokes, and imperfections. But they may not be the brightest of students in class, bud does that classify them as stupid people, people who don't deserve a good education? is that how it works in this satanic world? Yes my friends Yes it does. Here a persons capacity is judged by not the degree they hold but from where they hold it. And the sad part of this pathetic story is that no one gives a dam!
 In India the cutoffs are kept as 60% but the colleges don't even look at people below a 90% what is the point of keeping such a cutoff? to give fake hope to children? to play with their minds? to show that they are being fair? there are sufficient movies playing in the cinema halls, you really don't need to put up a show for us!
There are barely any colleges which have provisions for sports persons but those that do sell their seats to the highest bidders, it is hardly bases on merit. For all those people like me, please don't keep hope, its no use, there are a thousand people to blow out your candle of hope but no one to provide you a match to relight it.
We all are proud Indians, proud of what I really don't know! 

What is love?

Hey people this post is regarding what is love? well for some its defined as the feelings they have for their children, or for the feelings they have for their parents, spouse or for their siblings.. but is it really that shallow, how can you really define love? just because you have affectionate feelings does it really mean you love that person? Its absurd to think so, love is a really deep and meaningful word, plus there are so many kinds of love, in the sense that you may love your children but you don't love your parents the same way as you love your children, its a totally different kind of love, you may even love your friends, but that cant be put into the same category as the love you have for your family, hence its very difficult to really define what love is.

So i feel all those out there finding the true meaning of love are just wasting their time, cause love can never be defined, it needs to be felt, its like god, its a supernatural element, we cant explain god, neither can we see or feel him, yet he resides in us and we believe he is there, its the same with love, you cant see it, you cant define it and neither can you measure it. its just there, its meant to be shared, appreciated and to be believed in. love makes us do crazy things, gives us hope when we are hopeless, helps us overcome sickness, and drives us forward when all the world is pushing you back! love people love, spread love, be loved, love is beautiful, you cant ignore it, try and enjoy it :-)

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Education- the changing factor of India?

Hey people today i would like to discuss something very serious. Its often heard that if we could educate all the Indians all the countries maladies would be gone. But is that problem really that simple?
Is just educating all the people in this country going to help?
Even if we somehow manage to provide primary education to all the children in this country, which I may tell you is a number far greater than most countries populations, what are we to do after that?

Where are all these new educated children suppose to go after that?

Now days people don't even look at you unless your a graduate, hence these children would still end up waiting tables at roadside food joints or sweeping the floor, what will be the poor boys incentive? The same boy who thought he could make a difference if he or she got some education would completely breakdown.

Also now that they have got primary education some children might want to further pursue education, but they really cant cause they cant afford it, and even if the government manages to make that education free, what are they to do after that? neither does our country have the educational infrastructure to support these new students. The colleges are already stuffed to the brim with students and many more who don't get admissions, waiting in waitlists with a really tiny candle called-hope, something that gets blown off really easily, but is a task to relight! where are these new set of students to go to?
The next part is that even if all these people manage to get into college, are they enough jobs out there in this country to support these people? certainly not!

Just providing free education is not going to help, along with that the countries educational infrastructure needs to be improved, developed.
The government needs to educate the parents on birth control methods, family planning, etc, and it all needs to be done simultaneously and fast.
the entire country as a hole needs to develop, at present development is only based in a few pockets, it needs to be more wide spread! with development will come new jobs, better infrastructure and lots more with it!
Best of Luck India.

What say people?? give your suggestions :-)  

      

Bloggermania!!

 I am really new blogging and already have gotten the flu of blogging.. bloggermania, no its not a dictionary word.. i made it up, stole it, reproduced it or what so ever! the thing is that I've got it. its not even been a day since i started this blog and i am already depressed about not having any followers, the funny thing is i really dont even know how to get followers. all i am hoping is that someone happens to pass by my blogs, stops, reads and follows it. i know i am being really ambitious in my motives but all i want to do is write, not rubbish but quality things, i want quality people to read the quality things i write about, i want them to review, comment and suggest me on my topics i writer about, hopefully some day there will be a follower, cause after all its the reader that fuels the writer, the writer writes so that he can share his, experiences, plans, stories with his readers. i hope to do the same.. chow for now.. see ya my first few followers :-)

What is Humanity

hey People, as children we all think our parents are the greatest, that nobody is greater than them and that they are always right and everybody else is wrong, they always have answers to our questions, which makes them seem the most knowledgeable people in the world, the love they give us and the care they take make them the best people in the world!

But as we grow up in lives and learn more about this imperfect world we realize that these parents or rather perfectionists are not so perfect after all! they too have egos, some of them are non supportive, some simply don't give a dam anymore. they have such high expectations in life from their children that they end up pressurizing the child too much! some parents turn Alcoholic and beat their children, some cause trouble and great hardships to us. every parent, when he or she was a child thought that their parents were the greatest, when they grew up they realized how imperfect their parents were, and swore not to be like that when they became parents. But ask their children and you'll get a completely different picture.

But even though they are all that bad, we still manage to have a special place in our hearts for them, there are a few exceptions but thats a totally different ball game! when they are sick our mind tells us screw that bas**** but our heart tells us to go and see how he/she is, it asks us to take care of them, this is the beauty of  humanity! its nothing but humanity that drives us to do things out of the ordinary, to love someone you hate, to care for someone you want dead. this is the beauty of the human being- humanity, something no other being possesses on this planet.

please feel free to comment :-)

Introduction

hey friends.. this blogs here to share our problems... you can write ur problems here and we will try to help you.. be it love, family, relaionships... it doesnt matter.. feel free to express yourself!!