hey People, as children we all think our parents are the greatest, that nobody is greater than them and that they are always right and everybody else is wrong, they always have answers to our questions, which makes them seem the most knowledgeable people in the world, the love they give us and the care they take make them the best people in the world!
But as we grow up in lives and learn more about this imperfect world we realize that these parents or rather perfectionists are not so perfect after all! they too have egos, some of them are non supportive, some simply don't give a dam anymore. they have such high expectations in life from their children that they end up pressurizing the child too much! some parents turn Alcoholic and beat their children, some cause trouble and great hardships to us. every parent, when he or she was a child thought that their parents were the greatest, when they grew up they realized how imperfect their parents were, and swore not to be like that when they became parents. But ask their children and you'll get a completely different picture.
But even though they are all that bad, we still manage to have a special place in our hearts for them, there are a few exceptions but thats a totally different ball game! when they are sick our mind tells us screw that bas**** but our heart tells us to go and see how he/she is, it asks us to take care of them, this is the beauty of humanity! its nothing but humanity that drives us to do things out of the ordinary, to love someone you hate, to care for someone you want dead. this is the beauty of the human being- humanity, something no other being possesses on this planet.
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But as we grow up in lives and learn more about this imperfect world we realize that these parents or rather perfectionists are not so perfect after all! they too have egos, some of them are non supportive, some simply don't give a dam anymore. they have such high expectations in life from their children that they end up pressurizing the child too much! some parents turn Alcoholic and beat their children, some cause trouble and great hardships to us. every parent, when he or she was a child thought that their parents were the greatest, when they grew up they realized how imperfect their parents were, and swore not to be like that when they became parents. But ask their children and you'll get a completely different picture.
But even though they are all that bad, we still manage to have a special place in our hearts for them, there are a few exceptions but thats a totally different ball game! when they are sick our mind tells us screw that bas**** but our heart tells us to go and see how he/she is, it asks us to take care of them, this is the beauty of humanity! its nothing but humanity that drives us to do things out of the ordinary, to love someone you hate, to care for someone you want dead. this is the beauty of the human being- humanity, something no other being possesses on this planet.
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